Appreciation

"Give my son Solomon a loyal heart to keep Your commandments
and Your testimonies and Your statutes . . ."
1 Chronicles 29:19
Today's Bible Reading: 1 Chronicles 29:10-20.
How are we to love? We are to love as God loves us . . . we are to show acceptance and appreciation . . . [to] accept each other as God accepts us. Too many parents refuse to accept and appreciate their children for what they are. That is why millions of children, the world over, run away from home each year. A team of Oxford university researchers have concluded that the majority of these runaways were attempting to escape an unhappy family situation. They yearned to be appreciated.
The causes of delinquency, we are told, are broken homes, poverty, lack of recreational facilities, poor physical health, racism, working mothers, and so on . . . The experts never seem to mention the lack of love, or the lack of faith in God. Yet these are the two most important elements for an adolescent’s successful maturity.
How long has it been since you praised your children (or others) instead of criticizing them? David prayed for his son Solomon and daily praised him (v 19), and we are to praise our children daily (and others). I have found that praise goes a lot further than criticism. Everybody needs to be appreciated.
Prayer: It is so easy to criticize those close to me; but Lord, give me Your unreserved love so that they may know how deeply I appreciate them. In Christ's name. Amen.


